Life is an Experience ,Dreams are reality,monotony of life is a choice,events happen when they have to .What the hell am i talking about ,before i could answer this ,i got a call.My friend from other side:
"Maga ,hudugi oplilla kano ,kai kotlu ",now what could i say,"its OK,take it cool,she was a good girl not meant for you" then came the reply
"Maga illa le,adu nan ginta siktara avalge,yen antale gotta " i will continue with this conversation later,every one thinks he is a Shah Rukh Khan.So did my friend .
Again this conversation in this blog has a reason .Everything has.Lets have a look at the topic and come back to this conversation.Again this is just my point of view.
Whats happiness-For me its unlimited ,everlasting and where do we look for happiness?.
I say i would be happy if i can get a BMW or Mercedes .Now for that my first happiness is that i need to earn for that .So will i be happy with it even if i get these?I might not ! Again its a question where my expectation of me being happy takes a new turn .
Then what is true happiness.?Eating my favourite rasgullas(a Bengali sweet) will give only momentary happiness
because my happiness will fade away if i try to eat more.Then where should i look for true happiness.
I should look at true love,which my friend never found ,i am sorry to say this, and he was never looking at it !,he in fact dropped out of going to USA for higher studies , he says (he should have thought )and 6 months down the lane comes up this and starts blaming the other person.This is simply putting blame on others.I have asked him not to call me and blame others .I hate people blaming women ,i respect them a lot .And what ever reason might be, it was his choice ,outcome was not in his hand ,and nor will be.
That's another important point.It might be philosophical but the scientific fact.We do not have control over birth or death then how can we control events in between.We can only make choices.Even outcome of the choices is not under our control.An honest ,sincere effort will only ensure it might be.
But i see very few people value trueness of a person.Again its just a perspective.Again we can just make choices.
Monotony of Life :A career point of view-
Monotony of life,not moving along is professional career ,growth even monetarily is a choice we make.
Its with what vision we make choices that makes your life less or more monotonous.
Only Steve Jobs could have thought of Apple .The sleekness and style in each and every apple is an apt example of the calligraphy classes which he took years back made good use of .Only he could have done that.
If you miss that vision ,miss that right choice .You miss the success ! Hope i can get that vision and be a good
entrepreneur one day.Again i can make only a choice here with honesty.
I still haven't completed my friend's story .Lets go back there-Lets see his DVD(people who have seen Lifeu istene will understand better).
He never loved the girl.Only attracted by her beauty and there was no true love there.He was not clear of how to go ahead forget from her side,even in his case(Remember he has postponed his education plans).He just wanted to win over her.So she rejected .Now he is eyeing another one.This is not true love,or true happiness .He is behind one more girl now.his GRE classmate .This says it all.Faithfulness and honesty is the key.Again it was
a choice from his side.
True love is one where you make sacrifices,help the other person.If you don't find this understanding mutual ,go to Himalayas-I hope i need not in this life ! Coming back to serious note as said by one great person:
"Life is a tale ,as told by an Idiot ,Full of Sound and Fury ,Signifying Nothing"
The idea of the person who told this here is to trigger people to try to make it significant .
Making the choice is in our hands !Coming out of Monotony and finding true love and happiness is in our hands.
And sorry for the friend whom i made a case study .He needed this though !
"Maga ,hudugi oplilla kano ,kai kotlu ",now what could i say,"its OK,take it cool,she was a good girl not meant for you" then came the reply
"Maga illa le,adu nan ginta siktara avalge,yen antale gotta " i will continue with this conversation later,every one thinks he is a Shah Rukh Khan.So did my friend .
Again this conversation in this blog has a reason .Everything has.Lets have a look at the topic and come back to this conversation.Again this is just my point of view.
Whats happiness-For me its unlimited ,everlasting and where do we look for happiness?.
I say i would be happy if i can get a BMW or Mercedes .Now for that my first happiness is that i need to earn for that .So will i be happy with it even if i get these?I might not ! Again its a question where my expectation of me being happy takes a new turn .
Then what is true happiness.?Eating my favourite rasgullas(a Bengali sweet) will give only momentary happiness
because my happiness will fade away if i try to eat more.Then where should i look for true happiness.
I should look at true love,which my friend never found ,i am sorry to say this, and he was never looking at it !,he in fact dropped out of going to USA for higher studies , he says (he should have thought )and 6 months down the lane comes up this and starts blaming the other person.This is simply putting blame on others.I have asked him not to call me and blame others .I hate people blaming women ,i respect them a lot .And what ever reason might be, it was his choice ,outcome was not in his hand ,and nor will be.
That's another important point.It might be philosophical but the scientific fact.We do not have control over birth or death then how can we control events in between.We can only make choices.Even outcome of the choices is not under our control.An honest ,sincere effort will only ensure it might be.
But i see very few people value trueness of a person.Again its just a perspective.Again we can just make choices.
Monotony of Life :A career point of view-
Monotony of life,not moving along is professional career ,growth even monetarily is a choice we make.
Its with what vision we make choices that makes your life less or more monotonous.
Only Steve Jobs could have thought of Apple .The sleekness and style in each and every apple is an apt example of the calligraphy classes which he took years back made good use of .Only he could have done that.
If you miss that vision ,miss that right choice .You miss the success ! Hope i can get that vision and be a good
entrepreneur one day.Again i can make only a choice here with honesty.
I still haven't completed my friend's story .Lets go back there-Lets see his DVD(people who have seen Lifeu istene will understand better).
He never loved the girl.Only attracted by her beauty and there was no true love there.He was not clear of how to go ahead forget from her side,even in his case(Remember he has postponed his education plans).He just wanted to win over her.So she rejected .Now he is eyeing another one.This is not true love,or true happiness .He is behind one more girl now.his GRE classmate .This says it all.Faithfulness and honesty is the key.Again it was
a choice from his side.
True love is one where you make sacrifices,help the other person.If you don't find this understanding mutual ,go to Himalayas-I hope i need not in this life ! Coming back to serious note as said by one great person:
"Life is a tale ,as told by an Idiot ,Full of Sound and Fury ,Signifying Nothing"
The idea of the person who told this here is to trigger people to try to make it significant .
Making the choice is in our hands !Coming out of Monotony and finding true love and happiness is in our hands.
And sorry for the friend whom i made a case study .He needed this though !
Buddy...good work...controlling the part of life where fate shows us 2 doors and we choosing the one....nice one
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